Hi guys lets help each other here, if someone who used to be involved with your lover comes back after a couple of years(say 2 years for example), what do you do? do you allow them to get back together or do you interogate both of them separately to get a clarity about the whole situation?
firstly, ask yourself, do i really love this person? if the answer is yes then do everything in your power to stop your girlfriend's/boyfriend's ex from interfering. how do you go about this, well, thats up to you but just dont use any violence. on a serious note, if you love your spouse i suggest you ask them how they feel about that person, the answer should be straight forward, if he/she starts mumbling then something is wrong. and the other question you should ask yourself is 'how did this two start communicating again and who started, if your lover is the initiator, then you need to start expanding your boundries... for the sake of your heart.
But if your just having fun with someone and never picture yourself in future with them, then if their ex comes back just let them go and start searching for your own soul mate. i know we all have one soulmate...
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