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How To Deal With Jealousy?


Jealousy is the green monster that can tear a person apart. Everyone knows some story about a couple who broke up because one or both parties were jealous. If unchecked, jealousy can take over your relationship. You get to the point where you are paranoid because you don’t trust your partner. You have to know where they are, what they are doing, and (most importantly) who they are with. If you are having a problem with jealousy and you want to learn to control it, here are some useful steps you 
can try.For people who suffer from jealousy, they have to understand that it all starts in your head. You are the one making yourself jealous, not anybody else. Jealousy is not something that someone gives you. It is not something that you find one day. Jealousy comes about because of your own feelings.


How To Deal With your jealous Girlfriend


Dealing with a jealous girlfriend can be pretty tough so you should try not to give her any excuse to be jealous. One big thing is not to look at other girls. Sure, there is no harm in looking. Everybody does it. But if you are walking along with your girlfriend on your arm and you give another lovely lady ‘the eye’ then you are just causing trouble for yourself. At the very least, be discreet and respect your girlfriend enough not to do it when they are around.
If you have several friends who happen to be women, you might need to spend less time with them until you and your girlfriend can manage to get over the jealousy issues. This can be a tough call and your friends may not like it but if you feel that your girlfriend is worth the effort, then you should try to make her happy. Just don’t let it be permanent. True friends are hard to find and you risk hurting them by suddenly excluding them.

How Do i Get Back With My Ex-Girlfriend

Just about everyone has had their heart broken by an unexpected break-up at one time or another. After you get over the initial shock, anger, and resentment, you realize that you want him back. And why not? You may still be in love with him and ready to give the relationship another chance. It is normal to want to get back together with your ex-boyfriend. But it is not easy (if it was, everyone would be back with their ex). You may make a few pathetic attempts but nothing works. He won’t return your calls or reply to your emails. When everything you try fails, you may end up asking everyone you know “how do I get back with my ex-boyfriend’? Now, I am not going to go over how to manipulate or use dirty tactics to get your man back. This isn’t that kind of article. I am going to tell you how to try to get them back in as healthy a fashion as possible. To have a shot at getting back together with him, there are some things that you can do and some things that you don’t do.

How Do You Know If Someone is Your Soulmate?

Have you ever met someone that you had an instant connection with? They were easy to be with and you felt like you could share anything with them. Maybe you felt like you had met before. If you have ever encountered anyone like that, chances were they were a soulmate. Some people spend their entire lives looking for one. The fortunate find theirs and spend the rest of their lives together. Finding your soulmate can be an exhilarating experience while losing them can be devastating. But how do you know if someone is your soulmate? You are likely to meet numerous people in your life that feel an attraction to. Does that mean that they are a soulmate or is it just a normal infatuation? Before you decide, you need to know what a soulmate is.

What Do Men Want In a  Woman

Good sex-
Let’s not pretend that its just men who are looking for a capable and attentive sexual partner. We would be doing women an injustice if we didn’t give them credit for their sensual side. Men want a partner who will be willing to share her affection physically without intimidating him. I have seen it happen – some women simply look too intense or “hot” for men to approach. Sociologists tell us this could be because men are concerned about their ability to “please” these women in bed. To that end, there is something to be said for “dressing down” and being yourself. Some ways to show a man you’re interested in providing the physical attention he wants is through subtle gestures and touching. Graze his arm with your hand, let your hips touch casually, or just outright put your hand on his face – playfully. The point of subtle touch is to make him think it was casual, so don’t be too serious about it. By allowing for casual touch, you’ll be planting a seed in his mind. Besides, you can find out if you even like touching him long before committing to a date. Don’t be intimidated by men’s desire for good sex – after all, isn’t it one of your desires, too
Trust-
The word “trust” here refers not just to a man’s ability to trust that you won’t cheat on him, but his ability to come to you for his emotional needs. All people require trust before they’re willing to share with someone on a deep level – the kind of level that is healthy for a relationship. If a man thinks you’ll listen to his problems and immediately rush off to the internet to Twitter all your friends about it, he won’t have that sense of trust necessary to really develop a relationship. In fact, a lack of trust can lead to some really unhealthy partnering. A many may be willing, for instance, to have sex with you or flirt with you, but a perceived lack of trust will keep him from really connecting with his partner. You will become, pardon the expression, a “booty call” – not because he’s a jerk, but because he doesn’t trust you enough to move the relationship into the next phase. Here is another way in which you and your potential man are similar; you both need trust to make a relationship work. How do you show that you are trustworthy? Avoid gossiping to him about your friends. It may seem fun, and yes its necessary to blow off steam, but it will teach him another important lesson – that you are untrustworthy.


What Are The Advantages Of Being Single


One of the benefits of being single is indepence. Quite often, boyfriends and girlfriends feel the need to be accountable to their partner for their actions. How many times have you had to call and update your lover as to your whereabouts, your plans for the evening, or just exactly where you were last night? While this need to be in constant contact with a lover is not healthy, it is very common. Having responsability for your self is a good benefit of being single -- no one will call and want to know why you spent six hours at the bar throwing darts, or why you and your girlfriends walked around the mall for the entire afternoon. In short -- you can do what you want, when you want to do it, without having to fess up to anyone later. There's no asking for permission, no guilt to deal with later, and no feelings of remorse to ruin your night out with friends. We all love the responsibilities that come with love, but enjoy the benefits, being single can be a time for you to enjoy your self. There will be plenty of time for guilt later.


By examining some of the drawback of being in a relationship you can learn to enjoy the single life. Another aspect of a relationship is that you lose time to develop your own interests and well being. It seems that every time I get into a relationship, I work out less, I read less, and self improvement gets put on the back burner, or even worse, gets tossed out the window altogether. If you find yourself suddenly single, take the time that you would normally spend with a lover and use it to make yourself even more attractive. Take a college course, read that long novel you've been staring at in the bookstore window, do some yoga, go on a diet -- anything to make yourself a better person. Not only will you be better of for it, but you may find that this increase in your charisma will attract potential future partners.


How Do u Handle Falling In Love with A Friend?


It happens all the time.  You are good friends with a person; you hang out with them all the time, and gradually you realize that you are falling in love with them. What do you do? How do you handle falling in love with a friend? Will it ruin the friendship? These are common questions that everyone must answer. You can’t help falling in love with people. It happens naturally of its own accord. If you were friends first, it just means that the two of you are compatible. But friendships can be hard to come by. So is it worth the risk?The best relationships are those that start out as a friendshipIf you're wondering "What Will Falling In Love With A Friend Change?" there's no easy answer but there are things you should consider. You have to realize what you are risking if you try to get closer to a friend. You are risking the friendship itself and the possibility of losing someone that you really care about because of your feelings. you may ask yourself a question, "Can we still be friends if he/she rejects my proposal"?Remaining friends after a failed confession of love is one of the most mature things you can do in your life. Don’t throw away your friendship if you can help it. Try to come to terms with your feelings and hopefully your friend will consider them a complement. After all, a true friend is hard to come by.


Are These Feelings Normal When In Long Distance Relationship?



hose are pretty common emotions to go through in a long-distance relationship. People can be "perfect for one another", but that chemistry doesn't work very well when you don't ever see one another. He's not there and you're feeling lonely, so it's natural to be looking around at other guys. Your mind is playing tricks on you, because your life probably seems like it did back when you were single. You don't have a guy around, so you start to notice other guys.
I'm assuming the two of you are pretty young, so I imagine "losing a summer" where your friends are going out with boys and having a good time seems like quite a sacrifice. You have a long life ahead of you, though, so don't necessarily let a temporary separation cause you to call it off with a guy you have a good relationship with. In a little bit of no time, he'll be back in town and you can enjoy life together once again. You're lucky, because this isn't a permanent long distance relationship, but a temporary situation.

Having already been in one serious relationship, you're probably assuming you have a little more perspective on "love" and "serious relationships" than your boyfriend does, since this is your first. You've seen one come and go, and you probably don't want to put your boyfriend through an awful experience similar to the one you've already been through. That shows you are a caring person who doesn't want to do your guy wrong. Of course, that can't be the only reason or even the main reason you stay in a relationship, because it won't be good for anyone if you aren't committed to the relationship. So you have to weigh all the factors and decide what is best for you: once that decision is made, you have to weigh all the factors and decide what is best for your boyfriend

How Do u Handle A Boyfriend With Commitment Problems?

It is a common problem in many relationships. You find someone to date and early in the relationship, they are attentive and want to spend time with you. You know…the perfect guy. Then you decide that you want to get more serious. That is when they start to backpedal and won’t commit to a serious, exclusive relationship. Why do guys do that? It can throw a healthy relationship into disarray and leave you in a confused and frustrated state of mind. How do you handle a boyfriend with commitment problems?

A guy’s failure to commit to a relationship can be due to many factors. Rarely is it ever your fault so don’t blame yourself. A common trap that is easy to fall into but will only make matters worse is to fight about it. Arguing over the issue will help to drive him further away from commitment (but can be hard to avoid sometimes). So what do you do to get him to commit? It is a tough position to be in but here are a few things that might help.Once you feel you know what the problem is, it is time to communicate. Communication is the key to any healthy relationship. Without communication, problems will only get worse. If you want to get serious but he doesn't you have got to let him know how important it is to you.If you have been pushing and putting pressure on your guy to get serious, then you need to change your tactics. Those methods rarely work as guys can be incredibly stubborn about doing something they don’t want to do. Don’t blame them. It is the fault of society preaching messages like “don’t let others tell you what to do” and “be your own boss”. So you are fighting against years of conditioning.

How Do you Handle Problems In a Relationship?

So what kind of problems are you having in a relationship? This is important in figuring out how to handle them. For instance, are the two of you arguing a lot? Are you spending too much time apart? Is he not talking to you or not showing much affection? Does he want to go out with his friends a couple of nights a week? These are all common problems that, with enough dedication and the right solution, you can work them out. However, if the nature of the problem is more serious, such as physical violence or infidelity, that is a whole different ballgame and one that you need to seriously consider if it is worth sticking around to fix. Violence and infidelity are two things that can cause irrepairable damage to a relationship. These types of problems are difficult to overcome and if they happen once they will likely happen again. These types of problems, however, should be discussed in another article. what is the course of these problem? First thing you should do is to try to analyze yourself. This will include your role and your actions in the relationship. How do you treat the other person? Are you respectful to them? Do you give them positive attention or do you boss them around? The cause of the problems could be something that you are doing. On the other hand, it may be something that the other person is doing to cause the issues.

There are other common causes to relationship problems. These include things like finances, jealousy, peer influence, disapproval of parents and in-laws, personal habits, and a dozen other things. Whatever the cause may be, it is important for the future of your relationship to identify it.